How to avoid acting like a bridezilla planning a Kenya wedding 

A bridezilla is a bride who becomes irrational and uncontrollable, thus being unkind to everyone she encounters. Dealing with the wedding planner, photographers, service providers, the venue, and the dressmaker, among other things, can be extremely stressful. All of this can drive a bride to have a nervous breakdown because these are the fundamental factors that make a wedding possible. The following are some suggestions to assist a bride in dealing with a bridezilla problem before or on the wedding day.

Listening

Listening is a crucial skill that aids ineffective communication. Every bride should take the time to listen to those around her, whether it’s her bridesmaids, mother, or friends because you never know when one of them will help you see things in a new light or give you advice on how to proceed with the planning. Also, attempt to converse with them about your ideas and get their feedback. They will tell you what they believe from the perspective of the guest and will also give you advice on how the matter should be handled, rather than lingering on your own opinions and preferences.

Keep your expectations in check.

It’s quite acceptable to want your wedding to look like the celebrity weddings you’ve seen on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest. What you need to know is that this wedding is quite expensive, and the planners spent a significant amount of time attempting to make the setting look exquisite. Take your time to review your budget and determine how much money you have for your wedding. This will assist you in deciding whether to go with the social media wedding or the traditional wedding.

Take a break.

Yes, we understand that your wedding is approaching, but that should not be an excuse not to go out with your bridesmaids, friends, and spouse and have a glass of wine, or go shopping while you talk about yourselves. It doesn’t take much effort to do this; all it takes is a decision. Take a ride with your spouse, or go on a small vacation within town or outside, depending on what you agree on. This will assist to take your mind off of the planning. When talking with your friends or spouse, avoid bringing up the wedding.

Have a good time

It doesn’t mean you have to have a formal wedding to impress your family and friends. Consider what you enjoy doing: playing, dancing, or singing while playing the piano. Include those minor details to avoid a dull wedding and to liven things up. Remember to practice and share your ideas with the wedding coordinator and bridesmaids so that they can assist you or offer you feedback. The lessons will offer relief to your mind from all the planning stress.

Be thankful.

Remember to be courteous to everyone around you. Don’t forget to say thank you when one of the bridesmaids gives you an idea that you end up approving. This will demonstrate your appreciation for them and encourage them to make other sensible decisions. If you don’t know how to say thank you, you can still wrap some small presents and give them to everyone who has helped you with your wedding plans.

You don’t have to put yourself under a lot of pressure in order for your wedding to go smoothly. Remember to look after yourself if you want to avoid health problems like depression before your big day.